Life Doesn't Really Suck

Hello!

It's been a while since I've gone on this thing, but I figured I should get back to writing.

So, I found out I didn't get an internship that seemed perfect for me. I had an interview last Wednesday, and I found out today that I didn't get it. It sucked. I felt crappy.

But, you know what? I'm over it already. I spent a good, solid hour sulking over the fact that I didn't get my "dream" job for the summer until I realized that my life is no different than it was before I found out, and that isn't necessarily a bad thing.

Yes, it was a great position, and I'm sure I would have loved it. But you know what? I can sulk for days, throw a daily pity party for myself, sob helplessly in the shower as I try to think of every possible reason they decided not to give me the job, but is that really going to make a difference? Will they magically reward me with a position with an apology note saying "sorry, we made a mistake!"? No, so I'm not going to dwell on it anymore.

Perspective, people. It's all about having perspective.

I know it's a cliche to say that everything happens for a reason, but I'm a firm believer in that philosophy. Maybe I would have been miserable in that job. Maybe I would have been completely stressed out, wishing I had more time for myself. Maybe I would have missed out on some really awesome vacations or family time.

There are other jobs out there I can apply for. Some won't pay quite as much as I'd like, but they'd give me a lot more free time to write and do other things I enjoy (travelling, family time, writing). So you know what? I'm happy. I'm glad things are working out the way they are, because I know in the end, everything is working out in the best possible way. Hey, at the very least, I got to practice my interviewing skills!

So that was my spiel. For those of you who are feeling a bit down and frustrated with life, he's a little booster to help you feel better!

How to stay positive when things aren't quite going the way you'd like: 

1. Remember that no matter how much time you spend sulking, the outcome really isn't going to change. You're only going to end up wasting your time feeling crappy, and really, who enjoys feeling crappy?

2.  Think of the positive things in your life. Have a significant other or awesome best friend? Just indulged your favorite dessert? Have the comfiest pillow in all of pillowland? Whatever it is, be it a person, your pet, a trip you're planning or even something as small as a nice exchange you had with the mailman or the beautiful weather outside- there is something in your life you can be thankful for.

3. Think about your past. Remember that other times where things seemed to be sinking fast? Remember how you got out of it just fine, and life moved on? Things will work out. Just be patient and stay optimistic!

4. Indulge yourself. Have a little bit of "you" time. Watch your favorite bad movie, go on a shopping spree, eat your favorite meal (and dessert!), write, draw, sing- whatever you enjoy doing, do it! Have fun, and remember that no matter how bad things get, you still have these wondrous joys to keep you happy.

5. Sulk. Rant. Get it out of your system. Then think about someone else you know who has it worse than you and be thankful for everything you have.

I hope this helps a little! Smile and stay positive! =)